Some say love does not truly die. Even when you part ways with the one you love, there is still some feeling which cannot be explained. For example when you see a former lover with someone else, there is some uneasiness you feel. But some people do not believe in this. They believe when lovers part ways, they part ways for ever and whatever they do and whoever they love next does not matter. Kimberly Okonkwo spoke with a few single Nigerians, and asked if they can marry the former lover of their sibling.
BEN Ikeji
Yes, I will if I love his brother genuinely, he is my ex and so. We have nothing to do with each other again. It cannot cause any form of scandal, I would have already told his brother that I dated him before; in that way, there should be no surprises or lack of transparency, because I would have made myself clear.
Nneka Ozo
Well relationships can be complicated and getting married to your ex’s brother can be more complicating than one can imagine. First of all your ex might want to win you back (you know how guys can like to be Oliver Twist at times) which can cause a lot of drama and personally I hate dramas so I’d like to avoid it. I would only marry my ex’s brother if my ex was already dead.
Westley Igbo
Na Wa ooooo……..No jare it’s odd. It might cause misunderstanding between them, I mean the siblings; your ex will not want his sibling to have what he has tasted and more so from relationships, I have learnt that ex-s’ really don’t want to have anything to do with their ex talk more of their siblings and also if they are still in love and they broke up because of some unserious issue. When you start dating the sibling the feelings will start coming back and it will cause problem
Tochukwu Ugochukwu
No, that is ridiculous. It will be preposterous to engage in such unwholesome behavior which will degrade my personality. I believe people should be decent enough to know when to start in relationships.
Ijeoma Orazulike
For it to get to the stage of marriage, then the relationship must have thrived meaning both parties are at Peace. For a relationship to fail then either both parties didn’t seek God’s face before engaging in soul ties, or they were not patient enough in times of dating. On the other hand, Since the relationship with the sibling has thrived up until marriage then it means both families are at peace concerning the marriage and wisdom must be applied and the will of God must be engaged. If It’s the will of God, I will with no sentiments. If I’m in the middle of a relationship, I should know my partner’s siblings and family before getting into it. But if otherwise, I would suspend all formalities and set things right!
Kasim Bernard
No,I might still want my ex and that won’t be so good because my fiancé might not trust us; where there was fire, ashes will be left but might overcome if I really love his brother. I won’t mind if my ex tries to cause a scene either since I love the brother so much.
Sharon Ola
I don’t think it would be wise to do that. There will be so much unnecessary malice, strife and lack of comfort that will arise in the future but there are exceptions; It would also depend on the circumstances surrounding the first break-up. I mean something serious might have triggered the first one and both I and my ex wouldn’t see anything wrong in moving on regardless of if it’s within the respected families.
Mbachu
Yes, I can because we would have found something rare in each other and even if my ex starts acting up, we both agreed on the break up, so I will kind of not care especially if I found out after dating her sister for a while. She’ll have to eventually let it go and get used to the situation and guess what, life goes on!
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