Hey guys i have decided to educate my readers more on sex and love matters, Just this morning before leaving for work i got an email from one of my DN readers seeking for my advice, Here is what she sent..
Hello Dammy, i picked interest in your blog because you make soo much sense and i love the Sex education part, i have a little problem,
Q: The other day my boyfriend and I were hooking up, and he put his fingers inside my vagina. I was really surprised and didn't expect him to do it, but I let him anyway. While he was doing it, it started to hurt, so I told him to stop. Is this normal?
Thanks for sharing with us your experience, You didn't indicate your age and the kind of relationship you have with his guy, if your mature enough to have a sexual relationship
What you felt is totally normal!(it is called Fingering) Does he have nails? Your boyfriend probably doesn't have a lot of experience and wasn't really sure what to do...which is why it didn't feel very good. Vaginas are sensitive and need to be treated VERY gently. More importantly, though, your boyfriend should not be surprising you like this. If you and your guy want to get more physically intimate that needs to be a mutual decision — not something that he decides on his own. If this is not a step you are comfortable with, let him know. Tell him, "I really like you, but I'm just not ready for this." Chances are he was doing it because he thought that it was what you wanted and thanks for sharing this moment with us
Don't forget to send more issues on Dammysblog@gmail.com, i will post it
Hello Dammy, i picked interest in your blog because you make soo much sense and i love the Sex education part, i have a little problem,
Q: The other day my boyfriend and I were hooking up, and he put his fingers inside my vagina. I was really surprised and didn't expect him to do it, but I let him anyway. While he was doing it, it started to hurt, so I told him to stop. Is this normal?
Thanks for sharing with us your experience, You didn't indicate your age and the kind of relationship you have with his guy, if your mature enough to have a sexual relationship
What you felt is totally normal!(it is called Fingering) Does he have nails? Your boyfriend probably doesn't have a lot of experience and wasn't really sure what to do...which is why it didn't feel very good. Vaginas are sensitive and need to be treated VERY gently. More importantly, though, your boyfriend should not be surprising you like this. If you and your guy want to get more physically intimate that needs to be a mutual decision — not something that he decides on his own. If this is not a step you are comfortable with, let him know. Tell him, "I really like you, but I'm just not ready for this." Chances are he was doing it because he thought that it was what you wanted and thanks for sharing this moment with us
Don't forget to send more issues on Dammysblog@gmail.com, i will post it
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